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Summer Schedule Is Here! Top 5 Reasons For Summer Family Photos

The Top 5 Reasons for Summer Family Photos

While it is no secret that, hands down, Fall is the busiest time for family photographers, those sweet summer days are a strong second.  Not much has changed since I was a kid - I quite literally LIVE for summer.  Everything about summer fits my personality, warm weather, swimming, freedom of the rigors of the school year, family time, staying up too late, watermelon....I could go on forever....but I'll narrow it to five. Here we go: 

1. Sun Kissed Skin and Hair, Sundresses, Short Sleeves and Sandals

Raise your hand if you remember squeezing lemon juice in your hair as a teen (or maybe even Sun-IN?)  While we, as a generation, tend to exercise a bit more caution in the sun these days, there's no denying that most people, especially kids, are sporting a healthy glow in the summer.  I personally love having my photos taken in the sunny months to take advantage of how I feel with a little color on my cheeks.  What little girl doesn't love twirling in the summer breeze in her favorite summer dress while her little brother kicks off his sandals to dip his toes in the water?  

2. Schedule and Flexibility

Like I mentioned before, FALL  is the busiest time of year for me and it is also the most difficult to get on my books! (Not to mention all the praying to weather gods).   I have opened up the summer schedule this year in a new way.  Book the week or weekend you want to shoot and we'll find a day that works best of US!  I know summer is busy with travel, camps, visitors and ferry rides - but by booking a flexible date with me and we can work together to find the best time to have our shoot!  

3. Weather!!

Maybe this should have been #1!  While we have some pretty great and predictable weather through September and sometimes into October, our Summers here in the Pacific Northwest are truly magnificent.  The quality of light is so warm and I cherish the richness of summertime images. 

4. Creative Locations

The summer opens up so many possibilities for additional locations.  Whether it is riding a ferry boat or making a snow-free drive up to the mountains or wading in a creek, there are just some things that can only be done in the summer.  Let's get creative!  Where should we go for your shoot this year? 

5. Family Connection

While it is my goal to capture family connection all year round, there's something particularly special about summer.  It is a time of transition and anticipation.  It is a time of togetherness and throwing caution to the wind (hello late nights and long road trips).  I love to hear about the accomplishments of the past school year  and the excitement for what's to come after we say goodbye to summer when it leaves us long before we're ready.  (Hint - this is when I get some GREAT expressions from kids telling me all their life updates!) 

Sigh....I'm so excited for summer !  Who's with me??


5 Things You Need to Know about In Home Newborn Photography

Every time I get an inquiry or request to book a newborn session two things happen: 1. I get very excited, because I LOVE the babies.  There's truly NO other time in life you experience such a extreme shift ... of everything you know or thought you knew.  I love to document that and I'm so honored to do so.  2. I stress extremely clear expectations for my style of newborn photography just in case they were reaching out without seeing the work as you see below.  I let them know that the session is baby led, in your home and most likely 90% in your arms.  I don't do props, backdrops, beanbags, hats, etc.  That is not my style but if it yours then I'm super happy to recommend some of my amazing colleagues who will blow your mind.  If they're still with me we dive into the details - here's my top 5 favorites that you'd like to know too: 

1. Even Though We Are at home, There's Still Guidance on 'Posing.' 

Don't worry, I won't just be a fly on your wall, I'll guide you and your baby and family members into the best light and direct you on how to move your bodies, your eyes, and hold the baby for the best possible image.  I leave the connection and emotion up to you, that's the easy part.  (But be sure to read THIS blog post if you need help getting in the right frame of mind for you shoot). 

2. Let Go of House / Nursery Perfection.

I hear this a lot "but we don't have a fancy Pinterest house/nursery."  That's totally fine.  Don't get me started on how easy it is to go down the road of wanting to hide under a rock and wallow in our FOMO and our self doubt after one scroll through Instagram or Facebook, its a recipe for a piping hot plate of disappointment.   I can't stress enough that the location of our newborn shoot is meant to be one to to make you feel safe, comfortable and at home with your new family.  I'm there to photograph your CONNECTION - that's why you hired me.  So, don't stress over perfection.  Does it help ascetically to clean up the clutter, put away anything you don't want showing up in your photos? Totally.  I'll be coming into your home and looking for the best LIGHT so make sure you know I could be in any room of your home.  


3.  Plan on the Session Lasting 1-2 Hours.

Like I mentioned above, in home newborn sessions are BABY led.  If baby needs to eat, baby eats. If baby needs a break, we take a break.  Usually this means these sessions can last a while.  When siblings are involved, we also take their lead.  Becoming a big brother or big sister is an amazing time for a little one, but also highly stressful and can need some special attention.  I always try to direct equal attention to the older children and usually acknowledge them before I say hello to the new baby.  

4. Identify What Is Important. 

When I started my first year of college, I was so sure I'd be a journalist. I ended up going a couple different paths, but still consider myself pretty good at reading people and picking up clues.  However, I can't read minds, I don't know your whole life story, hearing from you, specifically, about what is important for me to photograph is so key.  I know I say I don't do props but let's talk about incorporating things or ideas into your shoot that are meaningful to YOU.  Did your late grandma knit a hat for the baby? Did you keep mementoes from the hospital you want photographed? Is it important to have the baby's photo taken in a specific outfit? Let me know!

5. Mom, You.Are.Beautiful. 

Similar to the worries about the perfect home, I hear worries from mom about how she is going to look and feel.  Of course these are valid insecurities, you just gave birth.  But let's take moment to reframe that and really believe it.  You just gave birth.  YOU nourished life inside you! You are amazing and this is who you are right now.  Try and own that, love that. Most importantly, realize that your BABY will one day be a toddler, then a kid, then a teen then an adult.  I'd bet my LIFE on the fact that that when your child looks at these pictures ALL they will see is love, wonderment, connection and the way you looked AT them. They will not judge what you looked like. I promise.  Now that we've worked on getting your mind into the shoot, let's talk happy- mama-logistics.  Wear something you feel comfortable to YOU in even if it is flowy lounge wear.  Make sure to carve out time before the shoot that your partner is 100% on baby-duty so you can get ready, do your make up or whatever rituals help you feel your best.  You got this Mama. 

To book your in home newborn session with me simply click here.  I can't wait to meet you and help welcome your new life into this world.  The newborn days and weeks are so fleeting and honestly darn hard to remember.  Having family newborn photos is one the best investments in your family archives you can make! 

Personal Project: 10 on 10 January : A New Year's Day Neighborhood Walk

Happy New Year! Like everyone else in the world, I see the start of a new year as a time to make a fresh start, get back to setting goals, eating better after the holiday deluge and of course, reevaluating my photography dreams both personally and as a small business owner.  I'm feeling very accomplished and fulfilled on the business side of things, but I've really felt a little hole in my world where my personal photography has really dropped off in the last year or so.  So - January is acting as the start line for two major projects for 2018 to encourage more personal work, to continue to improve my technical skills and to get back to documenting life not just trying to take a gorgeous single photo for my instagram feed.  I want to remember I'm 'IN THE THICK OF IT' as a parent of young children.  This crazy time is zooming by and with my oldest child half way to his 18th birthday, it is very clear to me I want to do all I can to hold on to the memories of this phase of life.  

The first project will be one I've done before and have seen so much grown in my work as a result.  I will be doing a 365 project in 2018, one photo a day for the entire year. I plan only to post on Instagram to my PERSONAL feed for this project -please feel free to follow here ---->  As a compliment to that, I'll be posting here, on this blog, once a month the next project I'm doing - 10 on 10.  10 photos (oops, I've already cheated, there are 12 here, rules are meant to be broken right?) of a single event or subject.  I'm particularly excited about this one for two reasons.  First, it will encourage me to put together small stories like the one below and, again, not just be looking for the jackpot photo that 'wins' the day for my 365. (See my 1/365 photo on instagram  to see the photo from this same day no included here)   Second, I'm doing this project with an awesome group of photographers.  It is always fun to have accountability, company and inspiration with a group like this and I'm so excited to follow along with this group to see what we all come up with each month.  

To check out the other photographers in the project go to the next photographer up:  visit: Jessie Wixon Photograph at  and then follow the loop around back to me!! 

Now, January - a New Year's Day Neighborhood Walk.  Within a half mile or so of our house we found a lot of adventure on a blue sky New Year's Day walk. It was very very cold, but we had to get out to enjoy the last few moments of the sunshine on the first day of a new year.  A family goal this year is to take more walks around our sweet town, it sounds easy, but there's always a reason to put it off.  We headed to the 'blue park' but on the way we found some palm tree branches (this is unique on a Pacific NW January day) and a puddle.  After that fun, we hit the park where it quickly turned into a game of kids attack Dad where Andrew suffered a crushing defeat.   After lots of running, hiding, and hat/glove/sweatshirt stealing, we headed back.  The kids couldn't resist one more round of palm branch in the puddle before the sunset.  Happy New Year to all and cheers to all your goals, big and small. 


"But Mama, Is it REAL?" : 3 Tips For REAL Family Photos

A few months ago I was came across the trailer for the new Planet Earth II and was delighted to show it to my kids.  We’ve worn the DVDs out of the original Planet Earth from 2006, before my first was born.   The new trailer was spectacular with camera angles that baffle the mind.  After watching it, my 5-year-old looked really confused.  He kept asking over and over “But Mama, is it REAL though?”  I kept telling him yes, it was.  He didn’t change the question, he just got louder and louder (as he often does) and I realized he was questioning whether or not the footage was altered or perhaps even CG.  

We live in a time when our kids have have abundant access to photoshopped images, crazy amazing computer graphics, and apps on our phones that smooth skin, enlarge eyes or even give humans dog ears.  Our kids have to decipher whether or not everything they see is REAL way more than we ever could have dreamed of as kids.  Honestly, I find that exhausting and can’t imagine growing up in such a confusing world.  So why not offer as much REAL content as we can provide them.  


Why am I talking about this with relation to getting ready for you photo shoot?  Because I want your family to look at the images from our shoot and SEE the reality of the moment - not just smiles for the camera and perfect outfits.   I am not a documentary photographer, your session is guided by me, but only YOU can create authentic interactions with your family and capturing those moments is my gift and why you hired me.  I believe a little mental prep goes a long way when getting ready for our session. 

So what can we do to prepare for a session that captures REAL moments, true smiles, laughter and love?  Take a few minutes and read over these 3 tips and you’ll be more than ready for our time together.  

1. TELL THEM WHY: Tell your children (and partner) before our time together what we’re doing, what the goal is: not only to have some nice family photos, but to capture memories for your family. Tell them WHY these photos are important to you. I’m going to reveal the true cheese ball that I am here but in the last couple of years I’ve had two amazing sessions that both went beyond great.  I told my kids that the photographer wasn’t actually taking pictures of our bodies - she was trying to take pictures of our LOVE.  So I wanted them to show her how we show love to each other.  SO CHEESY right?  Well, it worked like a charm.  We went through all the ways we show love, hugging, kissing, laughing, being a good listener, holding hands, high fives and so on.  Having all your energy focus on love and not compliance can be a game changer.  It changes the position of what we’re doing from a chore (usually for Mom) to a family activity.  I know this is such an idealistic way to think of this - there are things like temperament, age and stress that come into play - but think of this as a calming baseline.  If your kids are too young to have this conversation (I'd try it with kids 1 and over), have this conversation with yourself and partner before the session.  

2. LET THEM BE KIDS! I know there is a fine line between letting the kids run the shoot and letting them be free to explore and have authentic moments.   So let’s work together on this.  Tell them there will be moments that I will ask them to participate, play games, snuggle their parents and siblings, but there will also be moments when we can play and explore.  Try not to direct them too much, leave that to me. The hardest thing for kids can be having too many grown ups shouting out directions. 

3. BE YOU!  Who are you and your family? What do you enjoy doing together when you’re not in front of the camera?  Do you adventure? GREAT - let’s do that. Photoshoots don’t have to be at beaches or parks, we could ride a ferry, go to the zoo, go on a hike, be tourist downtown, chop down a Christmas Tree, hunt for Pumpkins at a patch, the list goes on and on.  Do you have dance parties? GREAT!! Let’s bring some music and dance it out during your session!  Are you homebodies? GREAT! Let’s do an in home session, I adore these, I can capture great family shots, but also photos of your family in your REAL everyday environment, playing games, jumping on beds, making food together.  Even better, combine all of the above!  Again - we’re trying to keep it REAL right? 

I want our time together to be awesome, I want your images to make you smile, allow you remember and be true artifacts of your family history.  I want your great great grandchildren to see these photos and have a sense of who you were and what it was like to be a part of your family.  I’m ready to capture your love, thank you for taking the time to prepare it.  

Footnotes and Confessions: 

All Footnote images by the amazing  Elena S. Blair  - photo above is me cleaning up my daughters's mid-session nose bleed.  This was also just moments before my son barfed all over the ally. I've seen and experienced A LOT! From one parent to another, we got this.  

All Footnote images by the amazing Elena S. Blair - photo above is me cleaning up my daughters's mid-session nose bleed.  This was also just moments before my son barfed all over the ally. I've seen and experienced A LOT! From one parent to another, we got this.  

I KNOW so much of this blog post is, again, idealistic.  I know that.  My stress level before my first photo shoot was off the charts.  I worried about my kids being crazy and non compliant. I worried about my husband being (and looking) bored.  I worried about coming across as frazzled and angry in my photos.  But once I really thought about the families I photograph and the sessions that have been pure magic, I realized it all came down to state of mind.  I used that to talk myself off the ledge and really focus on what I wanted my results to be.  I applied the three above tips as well as these funky little tips that helped me. 1. Try the Headspace app.  I’ll keep this unpaid endorsement short and say it’s awesome - 10 minutes of quiet a day does a body (and mind) good. 2. If your kids are driving you crazy or you’re having a hard parenting day, take 2 minutes before you go to bed to sneak in and watch them sleep.  This was a tip from my co-op parent educator I use often. Seeing their peaceful little faces is a great reminder of all that is magical about childhood and parenthood.  3.  Check their (and your) sleep.  I’m so bad at this - I stay up too late and it really can do a number on stress and anxiety for your shoot.  Make sure the week leading up to our shoot that your family practices your best possible sleeping habits. 

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Let's make this a two way conversation! Did you connect or relate with something about this post - let me know! Share your experiences - how will you prepare for your photoshoot with me each year?  Leave a comment below! 

Luca and I had so much fun with creating some un-real images, it was too easy - and I'll admit, pretty fun.  

Luca and I had so much fun with creating some un-real images, it was too easy - and I'll admit, pretty fun.  

Happy 10 Year Anniversary!

Last year I hit the beach for golden hour with this family to celebrate the couple's 10 year wedding anniversary.  We took photos in the exact spots they had their engagement photos taken the decade before.  This time,  with their two beautiful children.  I love the idea of photos for anniversaries and other family milestones.  And, of course, any session that ends with the kids, on the beach, in the water in their fancy clothes is ALWAYS a winner!  Cheers you two lovebirds!

Fields of Gold

Sometimes there are people you meet in your life you feel like you just can't thank enough.  Mary is one of those people for me.  She is a dear friend but also a great teacher and mentor. She helped me rediscover my love of photography and gave me the tools I needed to create the images I dreamed of making.  This summer night with her family was pure magic.  Thank you Mary for all of your support and kindness.  And thank you for having such a beautiful family to fill the pages of my portfolio! 20140524-IMG_008820140524-IMG_9989mary blog post220140524-IMG_026720140524-IMG_009720140524-IMG_030220140524-IMG_0450


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The Family That Plays Together….

My dear friend wanted me to spend the morning with the family documenting what a typical weekend morning looked like for them.  I was thrilled at the chance to do a mini "Day in the Life" session with these guys.  Right away the kids greeted me at the door in their PJs just as they were finishing up breakfast.  While we also got a few fun posed family photos, it was just them, having fun and I was just along for the ride.  Thanks D Family for a lovely morning! ruby side by side


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